Here is how to manually restart or stop Virtuoso from the command line.
The following article was used as a reference.
The following approach seems to work well.
isql {host}:{port} {UID} {PWD} EXEC=shutdown
A specific example is as follows.
isql localhost:1111 dba dba EXEC=shutdown
If isql is not found as shown below, change the path and execute.
isql localhost:1111 dba dba EXEC=shutdown
bash: isql: command not found
find / -name isql
/usr/local/bin/isql
/root/virtuoso-opensource/binsrc/tests/isql
/usr/local/bin/isql localhost:1111 dba dba EXEC=shutdown
I hope this serves as a helpful reference.